For some reason men and women keep learning to be better to one another, yet for some reason we don’t seem to ever perfect this art. I mean, in all these years you’d think Einstein would have developed some sort of formula. Even if he did, not all of us are comfortable with equations anyway. As a result women remain largely unsolved to men. This article will explore some simple things to make you a better boyfriend or husband today.
Listen & Ask
Like most other men I am not as chatty as my lady. She used to get very frustrated by the fact that she kept having to push the conversation forward. I’d listen and nod away as the conversation stretched and meandered from one subject to another and back to the initial one. This ended when I learned to ask questions. This showed her that I was listening and more importantly showed some interest, even when I had none whatsoever in what she was talking about.
The little things
Keep the little things piling up. These will come to your aid on days when you mess up. Buy flowers if she like them. Send messages for no reason at all, just so she knows she’s on your mind. Take her out as often as your money will permit. At least once every few weeks. Cook & clean when you have the time. Do not let her do it all. The frustration from all this piles up. Join her in cooking at times.
These simple things will bring added joy to your relationships.