Cuddling helps you to feel mentally and physically closer to your mate. It is a type of intimacy that isn’t sexual. That’s what makes it so special.
It is a non-verbal reminder that you care for someone else. The next time you are spending time with your mate, try some of the tips below to make your cuddling sessions amazing.
1. Wear a minimal amount of clothing.
You don’t have to take everything off like if you were going to have sex. However, the least amount of clothes you can wear when cuddling, the better. This gives you more skin contact and makes the moment seem even more intimate than before. With it being summer and warmer outside, you can get hot quickly and sweat on each other, so this makes the moment more enjoyable for both of you.
2. Make sure both parties are comfortable.
Even though cuddling is a comfortable way to lay together, it can also be quite unbearable if you end up contorting yourself into an awkward position. You want to make sure you aren’t resting directly on your significant other’s arm or else they will end up with a numb limb and lots of pain. If you are the one who isn’t comfortable, there is nothing wrong with asking them to move a little bit.
There are plenty of different ways you can cuddle together, so try experimenting until you figure out what way is going to work the best for both parties.
3. Swap places in the spoon.
Your man doesn’t always have to be the big spoon just because he is the man in the relationship. It can be quite comfy to switch things around and have you be the bigger part of the spoon as your man gets to cuddle in your arms. He is going to love the change of pace just as much as what you are.
By implementing some of the tips above, you can enjoy cuddling with your mate and embracing the sense of peace and contentment that comes from just lying there and enjoying each other’s company. Being able to spend time focusing on each other and the world around you instead of just thinking about sex can make a big difference in how you perceive your relationship.