In the world today, it seems like everyone is always rushing to get somewhere. No one can sit down and spend some time taking in the beauty of everything around them. Being able to spend time alone simply isn’t an option for most people. They feel a constant need to have someone around them at all times. Why is that? What drives someone to have to have others constantly around them?
For everyone, the answer might be different. Ultimately, it all boils down to whether you are truly happy with who you are as an individual or not. Do you enjoy spending time with yourself? Can you sit back, relax and just take in some nice music for an hour or two at a time with no one else in the room? You should be able to spend a couple hours with yourself. If not, you probably aren’t comfortable with who you are as an individual and need to work on that.
Why spend all of your time when others when you have the best company in the world in yourself? It really doesn’t have to be as complicated as one might think. If you struggle to be alone, start figuring out why that is.
What drives you to have to spend time around others? What makes you feel uncomfortable in your own environment? When you know what the problem is, you can work on correcting it. Until then, you are just going to continue feeling overwhelmed and frustrated.
What good is that going to do you? Everyone deserves to have friends and spend time hanging out and talking about things in their lives and what their hopes and dreams are. However, that doesn’t mean it should consume your life to the point where you cannot see yourself doing anything else other than that. You need to be able to cope with being alone with yourself. In doing so, you will find that you can truly be at peace and enjoy spending hours alone with no one around you.
Once you begin to accept that you don’t need others to make you happy, you can start to really enjoy life and the beauty it has to offer. It’s about time you start making things about you and not about everyone else in the world.